There has been a steady flow under the metaphoric bridge since my last post, but limited dating opportunities. I had a busy time work and friend-wise, then had illness and a bereavement in the family.
But Spring is sprung the grass is rizz and the sap rises...
My Amusing Academic (AA) remains a lovely constant, but geography and commitments limit our times together. Company, sex and spanking remain first class.
Mr Poly paid me a visit while his wife was doing similar twenty miles away! Very green sharing transport for their adventures I thought. Had our usual mix of chat, cuddles, meal and sex – very pleasant, but quiet since…
My sweet and nervous man from the Swansea valleys sans transport and mobile phone continues to be a regular fixture. His family responsibilities and my busy times and bereavement limited our dates, but they’ve been lovely – we watch old movies and then go to bed for a few hours.
As said last time - having visited “straight” site again I started getting messages once more. I did meet the arty West-Walian with interests and professional background similar to mine. He was very nice but after our first meeting, snow and illness took a hand and somehow we never got round to a second meeting.
And then the busy time followed by family duty stuff took over for a while. I decided to start looking again and finally met the other chap from the straight site I’d nearly met (daughter sprained her ankle and he then decided he wanted to meet women not seeing anyone else – with me so far?!). Another nice man with potential - Seemed more up for the “friends with benefits” idea as easier than fuller relationship as long as he has childcare duties. He left it to me to initiate next step, but not responded to my email so another one bites the dust!
Have agreed to meet someone from about 50 miles away from straight site who’d like sound of my profile.
I also revisited the goldfish bowl and it’s more sexual angle and triggered lots of messages. I’ve updated profile to say I’m looking for men with time to spare in the week as that’s when I have most free time. Most messages are still from men ignoring my profile and getting over-excited by my proximity. That said, a few reasonably bright men have read, inwardly digested and made contact.
Two of the most interesting are a very young man with family commitments on the weekend and a pub landlord. I decided Very Young man was too young, but we’ve exchanged some interesting messages about local history (as you do!) and I’m beginning to wonder about pros and cons of youth - more anon.
I have a pre-date date with Mr Publican this week, so watch this space.
I've had a peep at the spanky site but not felt tempted to advertise interest there, but decided to join "fetlife" - site for those with "special interests":
It's international so not best place for dating, but I thought it worth a cheeky profile:
Large, curvy and very ordinary-looking Welsh polyamorist seeks Holy Grail - NSA (but ongoing) hedonistic pleasure with men who worship breasts, spank bottoms, love kissing, adore fucking, can string sentences together and can find South Wales - it's a long shot but if you don't ask you don't get.
Says it all really...